
Friday, 21 August 2009
IT'S A CHALLENGE

Saturday, 25 July 2009
TOUR THROUGH GERMANY



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Sunday, 14 June 2009
A DECISION MADE !!

HERE I COME
Finally the decision is made: I am going to leave the country. First for a couple of months, but with the intention for a longer period. Never burn your bridges behind you and never sell the fur of the bear before you shot it (several Dutch cliché sayings packed in one sentence).
It will not come as a surprise that I have chosen for the US and/or Canada to go to. Not the easiest countries because it is not easy for outsiders to get into the country and to get a job. I have applied for a Green Card and the outcome should be available as of July 1 – it will make things a lot easier if I would get one. Maybe I am lucky for once.
Before I can leave still a lot has to be done and a lot of questions have to be answered. As a help for myself I will try to give an overview of all the different things that have to be dealt with:
MONEY
Money is a big issue with every decision I take: I will not have any income as of 1 July 2009; quite scary but I knew it was coming. For money I made some financial arrangements with my parents, but I do not want to become dependant on them. Independency is an important thing for my self-worth. So I need a job; just one day after I made the decision I was invited for a job interview and on Friday this week already a second interview is taking place. But it is in Holland; I have decided to take it seriously and just see what will happen. I can always say NO.
Points of action:
1. Contacting my bank for advice;
2. Necessary to open my own bank account in US ?;
3. Can I continue internet-banking on my Dutch bank account ?;
4. Is it wise to mandate someone in NL to deal with financial issues in NL ?;
JOB
The main question I am asked by friends and relatives is: what are you going to do in the US and how are you going to make a living ? Although these are logical questions I refuse to answer them: answers will come and I asked these questions to myself all over and over again. I will not let doubts of others ruin my enthusiasm.
Points of action:
1. Doing remaining job interviews in the current application procedure in NL;
2. Make an inventory of voluntary activities in SF: arts, gay activism …?!
3. Doing research on job possibilities in US;
4. Doing research on formalities concerning work permits;
SOCIAL SECURITY
The Netherlands has a fantastic social security system (mainly pension rights) and I should be careful to not unnecessarily throw away valuable rights by moving out of the country. Not very interesting issue, but better be safe than sorry. Luckily I have got a friend who knows a lot about these issues.
Points of action:
1. Contacting my friend what to do;
2. Contacting my pension fund ABP and FNP for advise;
HOUSING
One of the main issues I have to deal with while still in Holland is housing: this means what to do with my apartment in The Hague as well as where to stay in SF. I hate it to stand with my suitcase at the airport and to not know where to go. Someone advised me to look for expats to rent my apartment to while being abroad. This was one of the main incentives to pull me over the line to actually go. It gives me some financial means and I still have a place to stay when I return (if I return … ). But renting out is easier said than done: my mortgage owner has to agree as well as the union of apartment owners (VvE). To find someone who wants to rent my house should be the least of a problem: expats enough and housing agencies advert with “someone for your apartment in 24 hours”. I still have to inform what are the necessary requirements and what is a reasonable rent to ask: 1100 Euros I see as a minimum. And then there is still the question which adjustments and renovations are necessary to make it rentable.
Points of action:
1. Contacting housing agency for possibilities;
2. Making adjustments / renovations in my apartment (floor ?!);
3. Informing bank, VvE, neighbours;
4. What to do with my personal items, car, bike etc. ? – contact my parents;
5. Looking for housing in SF;
6. Looking for tax deductions with Dutch tax authorities;
7. To reorganize my personal belongings and preparing for my move;
EDUCATION AND LANGUAGE
One of the main problems when going to another country is how can you prove that you have the necessary qualifications. Because almost no one in the US can speak Dutch or anything else than English I have to prove that I have a Master Degree in Law and I can speak English. Furthermore as long as it is not possible to legally work, may be I can do a course.
Points of action:
1. Make an inventory of all my wishes for extra knowledge / courses;
2. Look for educational possibilities in US;
3. Let my diplomas be translated in English;
4. Check whether it is essential or desirable to do an English exam;
TRAVEL
It is worthwhile to check travel offers; it is still a lot of money to travel by plane and lucrative offers are available – this may influence the actual date of leaving.
Points of action:
1. Checking offers air carriers;
MOBILITY
There are not many possibilities to organize means of transport in the US from Europe, but maybe there are special offers for foreigners which can only be entered into before you enter the US. Is my Dutch drivers’ license valid in the USA and are there special requirements to buy / rent a car ?
Points of action:
1. Check offers for foreigners on tourist and transportation in US;
2. Phone Dutch AAA for specific requirements concerning USA / Canada;
HEALTH
Health is a big issue; it can become very costly when something happens and it would mean a big and irresponsible risk to travel without proper health insurance. Also do I have to arrange something to be able to take with me the only travel companion I can not go without: the ever reliable anti-depressants (or should I try to cut down on the amount once again ?).
What if something happens overthere and I need a doctor urgently. Can I go to any hospital or does my health insurer only reimburse costs made at specific hospitals and doctors ? Not an easy world we live in.
Points of action:
1. Ask doctor for specific prescription for a longer period;
2. Ask doctor for a declaration that I need my medication (to avoid getting charged with possession of drugs; I have got problems enough);
3. Check health insurance whether it covers medical costs incurred in the US or Canada and which costs;
4. Buy basic medical needs to take with me;
COMMUNICATION
Communication is key when you go abroad. People overhere have to know I am still alive and kicking and that I am not laying in the gutter or have jumped from Golden Gate Bridge. Off course I could go to an internet café to use e-mail, but for me that is too basic. I want to take the time to write on my blog or to consult the internet at a moment convenient for me: whether it is at 1.00 at night or 11.00 in the morning. To get complete internet coverage and full-time access to a computer does not seem realistic. So there has to be a laptop and this is the first step I took already: I bought a laptop – a basic one but with all the features. As a former computer nitwit it took some time to become acquainted with the thing, but I can deal with it now. Except the wifi-function I have tested all the functions and I am very pleased with the thing. This laptop should symbolize a new start !
Last time I was in the US my mobile did not work; probably because it is so expensive to phone by mobile from the US to Europe with a prepaid, that you are not able to say anything before you run out of credit. It is essential to change the prescription. Or maybe I should buy a prescription in the US ?
I took some precautions also to be able to listen to music while on the road. In SF I bought an i-pod and I uploaded (or should it be downloaded ?) loads of music to it. Only the proper ear phones are still missing.
Points of action:
1. Buy proper ear phones for i-pod and laptop;
2. Download all the software I might need on my laptop;
3. What to do with my internet and phone provider in NL while I am away ?
4. Test the wifi-function on my laptop;
5. Change the prescription of my mobile phone or take a prescription in the US?;
ENTRY
Last but certainly not least: what is it all worth if you are not able to enter the country or to leave after a few weeks ? Formalities; nobody’s favorite but I have to admit that I am quite good at it – I know what I have to do and I know my ways in bureaucratic stuff; that is where my legal background comes in. A lot of formalities have to be dealt with long before you can go and may define if you can go or not and your date of departure. I applied for a Green Card a long time ago and it should not be long until I receive a decision; it will make it all a lot easier. They do not know what they are missing when they refuse me entering the country on a more permanent basis.
Points of action:
1. Check the validity of my passport and drivers’ licence;
2. Check formalities at websites American and Canadian Embassies;
3. Check website American State Department for Green Card;
You see. It is possible to take a spontaneous decision to go abroad for a couple of months … Preparing is key and maybe it is partly my perfectionist personality that this list goes on and on. I’ll keep you posted. 
Thursday, 26 March 2009
THE UPS AND DOWNS OF SAN FRANCISCO (4 and final)

Sunday, 22 March 2009
THE UPS & DOWNS OF SAN FRANCISCO (3)
The aquarium at the California Academy of Sciences is a must; go and see it; fantastic !!
The great thing of SF is that every burrough has its own atmosphere and people; whether you go to the Marina, South of Market, Chinatown, The Castro - completely different and a world of itself; great fun;
Haight Ashbury is the hippie area; great alternative shops with stuff nobody needs (and actually nobody with any sense of style would want to buy), but it is authentic and going back in time;
Finally Castro Street; for us gays a very famous name and a very special place, although not as I expected; maybe because it was March it was not crowded and, I could say, almost dated - no "open" atmosphere; this was a bit disappointing, but coming from a country where gays are almost completely assimilated in society, it is great to have a place where we are present and in majority;

Sunday, 15 March 2009
THE UPS AND DOWNS OF SAN FRANCISCO (2)
Alcatraz is one of the main sights in SF; very touristic but still fun; take at least half a day and in season you have to book tickets in advance; as a single traveller I could be squeezed in at the last moment;
They have done a lot of effort to make Alcatraz an interesting and exciting place; in fact you are in a rundown and partially burned down jail - but the stories on the head phone make the prison come alive (even tour in Dutch !);
Chinatown is one of the other highlights of SF, especially for people, like me, who have never been to China; huge area and in February not overrun by tourists and, what seems to me, authentic; no signs in English and a lot of people do not even speak English;

In North Beach I walked past an Italian café, Mama's, with a line of 20 people waiting outside to be seated; and it was 10.30 on a Friday morning; I have never seen such a thing and I do not know whether I would be willing to wait that long for a seat in a café; it seems to be normal in the USA to wait for a table;
Walked past Levi's Plaza (head office of Levi Strauss); reminded me that I always want to bring something typical of the city or country back home with me; Levi's are a lot cheaper overhere, but I do not need them and I am on a budget ...
I had late lunch in the Ferry Building, which has been transformed into a food plaza with restaurants and shops; Everything is fresh and specialized in seafood (oysters, muscles, clams); I am a big fan of seafood, so I enjoyed eating there and looking at the people; Had fun with the staff and would be back later on in the week;

Thursday, 12 March 2009
THE UPS AND DOWNS OF SAN FRANCISCO
Everyone seems to own a laptop and in café's far more people sit alone to work on their laptops as overhere;
I can not get used to the plastic or paper cups in which coffee is served, like in the omni-present Starbucks (I tried to avoid them, but they are so typical for America that I had to at least try once, so I did in Berkeley); enormous cups though;
SF is much more Asian as I expected; I had the opinion that more than half of the inhabitants of SF are Asian-Americans;
The hills are really very steep (Telegraph Hill !) - cycling is no option;
Even in a "walking city" as SF Americans do not seem to walk; outside the city center you see hardly any person walking the pavements;
On several places in town the victims of AIDS are remembered - must have a huge impact on the town and was impressive;
Americans are easy to get in contact with - more than in Europe people start a conversation with complete strangers, which makes it easier for single travelers;
Strange is the price system in shops; you do not pay what is on the price tag - the cashier adds another percentage for taxes: for example instead of $ 9.99 you pay $ 10.68 - impractical;
When I am abroad my home country is almost non-existant. But the first thing I heard on the TV news was a plane crash at Amsterdam-Airport. The airport where I had started my trip that morning; weird;
Art and a healthy lifestyle are more present in SF than in most other cities - everything has to be healthy, organic and environmentally friendly; they just keep on going to the supermarket in their huge SUVs;
I had to get used to the fact that if you eat at a restaurant you get the bill presented the moment you have taken your last bite - do they want you to go ? I am not sure what they expect; as a "stupid" foreigner you can do what you like and that is what I did;
Lot of homeless people on the street; I do not know whether this is the crisis or whether it is normal for an American city; suppose they are not victims of the crisis, but drunks and/or drug addicts; as long as they do not bother me I am fine;
Service in the organic supermarkt round the corner of my hotel was fantastic - everything was fresh and it was possible to fill yourself a box with a lot of hot fresh food (usually Asian) for just $ 6 irrespective of what you take;
Food is in general cheaper in America - wine and other drinks are more expensive - a glass of wine costs you in general $ 8 or $ 9, you should expect otherwise with the Californian vineyards so close by;
In the style department Americans are no front-runners. Although the major designers are present in the shops around town, it does not reflect what you see on the streets. No style or "hoodies" dominate.
Golden Gate bridge is magnificent. I did not expect to get excited by a bridge, but the blue of the water, the green of the hills, the bright red of the bridge, the aesthetic, the sheer magnitude ... Great !
No better views of SF than from a ferry or from Sausalito and Tiburon across the bay.
For the first time in my life I have seen the Pacific !!
Enjoyed hearing and looking at the man with the guitar-playing dog ( a tiny Pekinese). Something was "loose";
Traffic lights for pedestrians indicate how long these lights still are green. Good initiative - should be done overhere as well !
Almost no people were shopping at the big stores - what is happening ? Crisis ?
Another first in a lifetime experience: an escalator with a curve (in Nordstrom); never seen such a thing before;
And so the list of my experiences (big and small) goes on and on. But not for today. Till next time !
Wednesday, 11 March 2009
BACK
Mr. James B. Culbertson
Ambassador to the Netherlands
Embassy of the United States of America
Lange Voorhout 102
2514 EJ The Hague
The Hague, 10 March 2009
Ref.: Inspection
Your Excellency,
Last weekend I returned to The Hague after a very enjoyable 10-day stay in San Francisco. Back home I found inside my suitcase a notification of inspection (NOI) signed by an employee of Covenant Aviation Security (CAS), stating that the CAS is required by law to inspect all checked baggage.
As a national of a free country I can not accept the fact that without my consent and without me being present my belongings were searched. If they would have asked me, I was more than willing to open the suitcase and let them see what is inside. Luckily I heard by accident that travellers should leave their suitcases unlocked, otherwise also my suitcase would have been damaged.
The fact that CAS is a private company under contract with the Transportation Security Administration (TSA) gives me little confidence that my belongings are in reliable hands. Who is responsible if some of my belongings are missing (I can not prove anything and I am thousands of miles away) and who ensures me that no forbidden substances are put inside my suitcase (for example drugs) ? The fact that I had to leave my suitcase open made me feel very uncomfortable.
Last but not least, I was very surprised that on my trip with United Airlines back to the Netherlands no US authorities checked my passport; nor at San Francisco International Airport, nor at my stop-over Washington Dulles International Airport. What is the use of all the security measures and bureaucracy if basic documents are not checked ?
By the way, I fully understand that security measures are necessary and essential. But the execution of these measures should be done with more respect for the privacy and the belongings of the people visiting your country. This should not be very difficult.
I hope you take these remarks into consideration and forward the complaints to the responsible US authorities. Thank you.
Kind regards.

Monday, 23 February 2009
Tuesday, 17 February 2009
WHAT TO DO IN AN EARTHQUAKE ?

You might wonder why someone living in area where earthquakes are non-existent would write a post on his blog about what to do in an earthquake ? But, since I am going next week to San Francisco and they still expect "the big one" overthere, I decided to learn what to do to survive and to share this information with you. Always a positive mind !
OK. It all seems common sense, but you never know what you will be doing when panic strikes. First tip therefore: stay calm. If your life should end, it is still better to go with a big bang, than with a small whisper.
Suppose I am in my hotel bed when it happens. In that case it is best to stay in bed, curl up and cover your head with a cushion to prevent falling debris hurting you.
Suppose I am somewhere inside when the earth starts moving. Then it is best to hide underneath heavy furniture like a desk or a table or to stand in the door frame (even I knew about the door frame). Obviously it is best to stay away from the windows or other glass objects. But what if you have a glass door ? It is also wise to stay away from outside walls and to cover your head and face to hide it from falling debris. Do not use the elevator.
Suppose I am in a room or building with a lot of people. Do not rush to the door to try to get outside; in a reflex all the other persons might do the same. It is better to look for cover; see above.
Suppose I am outside; move yourself to an open space without high-rise buildings and utility wires. Stay there till the shaking stops or watch out for after shocks.
Suppose I am driving when it happens. Then move over to the shoulder or the curb and watch that you are not stopping near high-rise buildings and utility wires. It is also not wise to stop on or under a bridge. One should stay in the car and pull the parking brake. Switch on the car radio for information. If you decide to start driving, watch out for holes in the road and loose utility wires.
If the lights fall out you should use a battery-operated flashlight and not matches or candles; if there is a gas leak it goes "kaboum"!!
Well, the chance that you read another post on my blog after 6 March 2008 has increased. But remember: I can still crash with the airplane, run over by a car, suffer a heart attack, be on a runaway cable car, choke on a hamburger or locked in and forgotten on Alcatraz. Life is never dull. Ciao.
Wednesday, 4 February 2009
LET'S GO TO SAN FRANCISCO
Saturday, 20 December 2008
TRAVEL FROM YOUR CHAIR
Google Earth is a great help to keep on dreaming. Since I have downloaded the free version I have traveled to every corner of the world to see what it is like overthere. After a while I discovered the "routes"-element (I have got the Dutch version, so I do not know how it is called in English). If you type in a fictional itinerary (f.e. from The Hague to Berlin) you can actually feel how it is to drive along this route (birds' eye view); especially in mountainous areas it is very lifelike. The Netherlands therefore is not such a very good showcase. Incredible what technology makes possible nowadays. I learn every day !
http://earth.google.com/intl/nl/
Sunday, 2 November 2008
METROPOLIS
The modern and laid-back capital of Sweden. Beautifully located. On a nice summer day the whole city is out and about; the sky is blue and the water is blue and the days are long
The eternal city. Stylish and impressive. The charm of Italian chaos and the enormous St. Peter.
Bit like home. Cosy, funny and friendly. Mix between Paris and Amsterdam. Great design and cool atmosphere.
Everything is big here. Look up and see the skyscrapers. Every culture has his own quarter. Indeed never asleep. Great museums.7. Florence
One big tourist area. Nowhere so much so close together. Overwhelming. Tuscan hills within walking distance from city center. Michelangelo and Medici.
All the tension in the world packed into one city. Hat on / hat off, shoes on / shoes off, shorts and long trousers. Politically and religiously impressive. Read the bible first (and then forget about it afterwards).
Should be on the list. Home of the arts and fashion. So near that we sometimes forget about it. City of lights and the city of wine. Test your knowledge of the arts here.10. The Hague












